Tragic.

  

“Two things awe me most, the starry sky above me and the moral law within me.”--Immanuel Kant

Children are precious
I was home for the weekend and had a ball with my niece! She recently started school(2yrs old) and I can already see how its helping her develop. She's using words that shock me, and she says them clearly. Like 'pay attention' she had me going with that. I've watched two of my three nieces grow up closely from birth and I must say children are precious! Their jewels! How a parent can harm their child is painful to know. Their so innocent,they can't defend themselves. My nephew is 1 and is My old man. He's picking up on words and try to copy our sentences. My godson who's three knows his mother's phone number and was saying his shapes to me. This is stuff they weren't doing when I left a few weeks ago,(maybe the shapes) and even I notice this HUGE change.

Again;children are precious! They grow and learn at a fast pace. I can't wait to be a mother.(Well time wise I can,) but I am ready for the challenge, experience,etc. To me parenthood is wonderful.
While reading a book with my niece, a story broke on the news saying a motherand child was hit by a car. My heart broke. Her baby was 21months and didn't make it. The car kept going. her injuries were not severe. We all only have God to answer to and surely this person will have some explaining to do. As a parent to lose a child has to be hard(for lack of a better word),and my heart goes out to the parents and family.

No moral for this one: the driver sure has none...

http://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/local-beat/PHI_21-Month-Old_Boy_Killed_in_Hit-And-Run.html

Theory: huge difference between friends and family

There is a huge difference in the dynamics of family and friends. Family is forever. Blood is involved. We share more than any friend,even if its not acknowledged. It amazes me how after so much,my family is still number one. To say it amazes me extends to me taking more of their bs than anyone else. Things I've gone through with family,I wouldn't tolerate in a friendship. I was just talking to my best-friend who is also my blood cousin about how friends don't understand family. They don't understand how issues are resolved differently. If I'm arguing with family, we sort things off different than a person I'm 'cool' with. There's not that whole, you argued and can't be around each other anymore. Or if I say one thing then we square things out I'm two faced. Point is, it happens. Surely it does with siblings. In my family, there's always something. But I wouldn't trade then for the world! Not for a man, a friend, or money. It just doesn't work that way. Because when friends have been foul, my family has backed me. When times were ruff we stuck it out together. Its just that simple.

What's the thin line between loving them,and taking the UNNECESSARY bs? I'm still figuring it out. I don't mind too much not knowing. I can still fully achieve what I set out to do without losing an ounce of love for them.

Remy Ma said "My inner most,ya'll be the ones who sin the most"......I believe this is true, also the ones most forgiven : )

Moral : Don't worry...be happy : )

You get the Buddy and the Booty--Brown SUgar

 http://zombietime.com/friendship_fries/friendship_fries.jpg

Theory : " In love, Love those who Love you back"

I'm happy with who I am,therefore I won't submit to the poor level of love {he} is attempting to give. Who said I have to be with him? I don't believe its written for us to be together. Love isn't forced. Love is timeless. For years this has been entertaining while we were friends the hints etc. Now its annoying having to put a title above your name. No I won't, I'm not a geek for love. If it don't work,it don't.
Can a guy and girl truly only be friends?
EVERY guy friend I've had at some point wanted more. (Unless they weren't into women) and with that comes annoyance. Does that mean they all can't handle no? All of them can,this guy just CAN'T. So I think I'm just going to do the 'grown up thing'(w/e that means) and just send him away...AGAIN! Oh this is what the millionth time he's been deleted off fb,bbm etc. I'm sure I'll direct him to read this, so when you(insert initials here) do, know that I have love for you, but we could never work, and if being with you is the only way to have you around, I guess you have to go. I enjoy our time together, but only as friends. After this I'm almost certain he'll just delete me. We're so grown up right? 

Dr.Mika believes he's being kept around because I don't want to lose our friendship,but do I really need a friend who cuts off communication when he finds a gf? and throws a picture in my face(insert childish ways here) that had to be about the silliest thing he's done. Do I need a friend who wont even hear how the "changes" make me feel? He just believe that change is inevitable?

 Moral to this story  "Don't always share your fries, the person maybe greedy and keep coming back"-- that has NO relevance,but it flowed lol!

*takes serious face off*
Heyyyy to my semi circle of theorist : )

Theory: when life gives you lemons, make chocolate chip pancakes- dr.mika
*semi-serious face*

The true saying is 'when life gives you lemons,make lemonade' well I don't like lemonade that much! I barely drink it however I do love chocolate chip pancakes. If the saying is true,then that means  make the same thing everyone elses does out of the situation(yea I could take a different spin but I won't).Why would I  make the same thing out of the same situation and get the same result as everyone else? why can't I make whatever I'm in the mood for?(which is almost always chocolate chip pancakes) follow the saying that goes "learn from your mistakes". This holds individual lessons which I think are more efficient in the whole learning aspect.

*moral, go for what you want,not what they say*
: )

Dude I hear you!..

Theory of the day: when your in college at 3am,at least one person is still up, : meaning : keep your moans down.
I'm not too sure if I should be laughing at this but until I figure out if this is ethical,I'll continue to do so. Last night or rather this morning I was up at 3am (the mom was in the hospital,Thank Goodness she's ok ) so after we wrapped up our conversation,I hear something,moans to be exact. At first I'm thinking like my room mate is getting it in behind our thin walls,I thought we had an agreement. Soon after I notice that the noise is coming from outside,(sorry roomie)I'm like well good thing some body is getting some *__* 
They were loud noises and I had to close my window (ugh the heat,they had more than me though lol)
I still haven't decided if they were better sounding than the crow that wakes me up every morning.
*silently walks away* 

I've finally decided to allow others in on my secrets to life. Not so much so...More so my opinions,theories and case studies. Sound good? Only thing is,I'm going off of  my inner most precious possessions:my mind and heart. I lack a degree but I'm working on it. Sophomore in college,not even close to it but I'm there(hence the name). 

Its been real everyone :looks around the empty room and smiles:

ps. DON'T take life serious,I mean it only has 4 letters and 2 vowels( think about it)